相信不少讀者都看過電視劇《不要和陌生人說話》，也對(duì)其中那個(gè)冷酷的家庭暴力施暴者痛恨不已。那么，您可曾聽說過國際上針對(duì)家庭暴力而倡導(dǎo)的"白絲帶"活動(dòng)？它旨在消除針對(duì)女性的種種暴力行為，由一群加拿大男性公民于1991年倡議發(fā)起，組織者身披白絲帶，表示決不對(duì)婦女施暴，面對(duì)針對(duì)婦女的暴力也決不保持沉默。

    目前，"白絲帶"活動(dòng)已經(jīng)推廣到全球。在美國、澳大利亞、南非及歐洲許多國家，每年都有不少男性在三八婦女節(jié)期間或11月25日-12月6日期間佩戴上白絲帶。

    Background

    "白絲帶"活動(dòng)的發(fā)起：1989年年底，加拿大一名男子因認(rèn)為發(fā)展機(jī)會(huì)都被女性奪走了，于是在蒙特利爾一所大學(xué)內(nèi)槍殺了十四名年輕女子后自殺。兩年后，一群男性期望社會(huì)大眾應(yīng)該從這悲劇中來反省，男性不該再對(duì)男人加諸女人的暴力保持沉默，所以發(fā)起了這個(gè)運(yùn)動(dòng)。目前白絲帶運(yùn)動(dòng)已擴(kuò)展到美、歐、澳以及南非等地，加拿大每年幾乎有50萬人配帶白絲帶。白絲帶運(yùn)動(dòng)的發(fā)起組織鼓勵(lì)男士在每年11月25日-12月6日期間佩戴白絲帶。

    "白絲帶"活動(dòng)的由來：消除對(duì)婦女的暴力是社會(huì)的共同責(zé)任。

    "白絲帶"的含義：佩戴白絲帶是一種個(gè)人宣言，表示佩戴者承諾本人絕不參與對(duì)婦女施暴，并且對(duì)針對(duì)婦女的暴力決不保持沉默。

    "白絲帶"活動(dòng)在中國：中國第一次"白絲帶"活動(dòng)是在2001年"三八國際婦女節(jié)"前2月15日舉辦的。

    Have you heard of "white ribbon" campaign? A white ribbon is not abadgeof purity or perfection. It simply says you believe that violence against women is unacceptable. Wear a white ribbon on November 25.

    White Ribbon Day is marked on 25 November each year and is an opportunity for governments, businesses and community groups to focus on a problem that affects many people throughout the world.

    The White Ribbon Campaign is the largest effort in the world of men working to end men's violence against women, and wearing a white ribbon is seen as a personalpledgenever to commit, condone or remain silent about violence against women.

    Violent crimes committed against women and girls - like domestic violence, sexual assault andpeople trafficking- continue to be pervasive around the world. Violence against women and girls affects everyone in the community. Men's lives are personally affected if their girlfriends, wives, daughters, mothers, grandmothers or sisters experience violence or the threat of violence.

    A history of the day

    In 1991, a handful of men in Canada decided that they had a responsibility to urge men to speak out against violence against women. They decided that wearing a white ribbon would be a symbol of men's opposition to men's violence against women.

    After only six weeks preparation, as many as one hundred thousand men across Canada wore a white ribbon. Many others were drawn into discussion and debate on the issue of men's violence.

    The White Ribbon Day in China

    The United Nations Development Fund for Women （UNIFEM） introduced the campaign to China in 2001.

    The new Chinese group is a community-based organization composed of lawyers, doctors, journalists, college students and teachers, community workers and other social workers.

    A written statement from the group calls on the whole of society, particularly men, to oppose any kind of violence against women, to never commit, condone or remain silent about violence against women, to offer the best possible assistance to women victims of violence, especially domestic violence, and to make positive contributions to the elimination of violence against women and to gender equality.

    The White Ribbon Campaign has been so far introduced to local communities in Northeast China's Liaoning Province, East China's Jiangxi Province, Northwest China's Shaanxi Province and Central China's Hunan Province.

    Voice of men wearing white ribbons

    Men wear white ribbons on November 25 each year because:

    We know that a fist in the face, a kick in the ribs, being forced into sex, and having one's daily life controlled and policed and tormented, are horrible things that should never happen.

    We care for our wives, our girlfriends, our sisters, daughters, our female friends, our co-workers.

    We know it is men's wives, mothers, sisters, daughters, and friends whose lives are limited by violence and abuse; and, whether we know about it or not, many of the women we know have been subject to men's violence.

    We know that men don't have to be violent, that men can do better, that men can be and often are loving, caring, and nonviolent.

    We want girls and women, and boys and men, to be free from the threat of other men's violence.

    We know that men will benefit from a world free of violence against women, a world based on gender equality: in our relations with women, instead of experiencing distrust and disconnection we will find closeness and connection. We will be able to take up a healthier, emotionally in-touch and proud masculinity.