人總是需要成功來(lái)激勵(lì)的。向著目標(biāo)的每一個(gè)成功都會(huì)激起你更大的動(dòng)力繼續(xù)走下去。所以當(dāng)你取得每一步微小的成功時(shí),不妨獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)一下自己,同時(shí)鼓勵(lì)自己一定能走向最終的目的地。
Helen Keller wrote, "Nothing can be done without hope and confidence." Every day, take a couple of minutes to list all your accomplishments for the day. Develop a tracking system for every effort and success, no matter how tiny. Each step toward your goal deserves recognition or some type of reward system. A checkmark on your calendar, congratulations from your loved ones, a hug from your partner, or money in your success jar all count. Document and celebrate often as you get in the habit of acknowledging what you have done right. Feeling the satisfaction of having achieved something has a snowball effect. With each success your confidence shoots up, you realize your limitless potential, and you gain more energy to take your next step. Repeated success in a particular activity motivates you to want to do that activity often.
海倫•凱勒曾寫(xiě)道:“沒(méi)有希望和自信,就會(huì)一事無(wú)成”。每天,用幾分鐘列出一天要做的事情。記錄你的成功和努力--不論它們多么渺小。為實(shí)現(xiàn)目標(biāo)所取得的每一步成功都應(yīng)得到認(rèn)可和某種形式的獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)。在日歷上打一個(gè)勾,所愛(ài)的人的祝賀,伴侶的擁抱,還有金錢(qián)——都是認(rèn)可。常常記錄和慶祝讓你養(yǎng)成認(rèn)可自己的習(xí)慣。成就所帶來(lái)的滿足感會(huì)帶來(lái)雪球效應(yīng)。每一次成功會(huì)讓你的自信增加,你意識(shí)到了自己無(wú)限的潛力,你也有了更多動(dòng)力進(jìn)行下一步。在某一活動(dòng)中不斷獲得成功會(huì)讓你經(jīng)常做那件事。